Emotion coaching

                                                  A gainst All Odds: In the early 50's there was an incident that a young Aborigine male named Max Stewart was accused of rape and murder and was sentenced to death without having a trial, the movie that was made about this case is called: Black and white 2002 An attorney named OSullivan stood up to defend Max, and even when he lost in one of the trials he appealed and to the high court and used the press to get attention to this case. This was very important for it made people get out of their ambient and not to ignore it as another Aborigine. The problem was that no matter what the attorney did it can not be allowed for him to win the case, for winning the case will show that the police is corrupted, and it will shake the power and creditability he had at the public's eye. But the attorney kept fighting because he knew he had to save him from death row. In the end the verdict was changed from death row, and guilty of murder to

     About finding that delicate balance between living & being spiritually rich: In the past a person was valued not only by his wealth, but also by his spiritual integrity and level of compassion – this was more balanced.   Nowadays a person is measured by his job, social status, and the parties he is invited to, the car that he drives and how big his plasma screen is at home.   We live in a consumer world were we are measured by how many and how frequently we shop.   O f course it has a lot to do with commercial brainwashing that sends us messages such as   if you buy th is car your family will love you.   They use the ideals we grew up on and that we search for when buying a   product, for $99.99 a month you can get closer to that ideal of   happiness. Living in this consumption mentality encourages us to be lost, to look for peace & happiness outside of ourselves. Don't get me wrong, I'm not suggesting that one should   live as a monk with no material posit

Know Yourself: Part of being successful is to really getting to know yourself objectively, your strengths and weaknesses, and then learn ing to accept them and doing your best to strengthen your talents, and find ing   a solution or someone who can help you with these stre ngths. The sooner you work honestly with yourself, the better.   A lthough you could always try to improve your weaknesses,   awareness is key.   This will help to make you a better person.  

  Learn To Appreciate Yourselves: People at times are full of resentment to themselves for they did not reach the goals they had in mind or because their surroundings had cretin expiations of them or because the don't fit into societies definition of success. Each person is very unique, each person has his own talents and weakness, each person has his own likes and dislikes, so that pattern of society of do well at school, get a degree, work in a respectable job, make money, marry someone to have a mortgage some kids and a white fence with an occasional golf game with the friends can not be every body's definition of happiness and success, yet people keep doing what is expected from them and are chasing that collective dream that they were thought growing up, thinking that it's their own personal dream to realize once they achieved it that they were chasing an empty shell ( I think that's the reason for a high divorce rate and that's the reason for those mid life cr

    Walk The Walk: One day as I was walking down the street I noticed that I was walking with my shoulders and head facing downwards, and when I tried to walk straight with my head held up I felt uncomfortable. So I started observing different people and their walks to discover that people tend to reflect their environment growing up or their current difficulties in their walk. People who grew up in a loving supportive environment, that came from a financially stable background were walking up straight and were carrying them salves proudly. On the other end people who work hard or that live with tight financial measures, were walking with their back bent their head was looking down, they were walking as if they were carrying the weight of their life's burden was on their shoulders. I think that at least from my case my walk at the time indicated a low self esteem , and I was sending a massage that I feel uncomfortable with the idea of taking space. It took me time, but I changed my

    Be Thorough: If you wish to be financially independent or there is a cretin subject you don't understand don't ignore it, dive into it! It is important from various reasons such as: 1) Understanding can help you identify opportunities or find loop holes that can ease your way. 2) Your self esteem goes up, for not knowingly it buttered you more then you realized, and suddenly the subject is not Chinese, you feel smarter and will probably want to experience that feeling again about a different subject. 3) By demystifying you are taking the fear that is blocking you from taking action out of the equation. 4)People will have   a more difficult time to deceive you in the matter of the subject and you will be able to tell the difference between being given a good or bad advise, and you will be able to maximize the benefits of the deal. By not knowing anything on a cretin subject you are taking a serious risk by completely trusting another person, that you can not be sure   about