Emotion coaching

  Don't Wait For The Right Time To Come-For It Never does : People have the tendency to procrastinate, to push their actions on living their dreams for a fogy time in the future, Why? I will give an example from my life: When I was 20 years old and started to have an interest in real estate investing I got many responses from people such as: Why are you studying real estate, I can understand people who have money, but you?! Or: Yes, real estate, I am interested in that as well but I'm waiting to have money first/to have time. Excuse me for saying that but: Bullshit! Many people can make money by recognizing an opportunity, but how can you recognize even a gold mind hitting you in the head if you don't know the meaning of rent stabilization or assumable mortgage? About luck of time, I think it's one of the stupidest excuses I ever hared, If people can find the time to watch T.V at least 4 hours after work every day, they can dedicate those exact 4 hours once a week for a...

  Don't Be Arrogant; There Is Always Something To Learn And a Way To Improve Yourselves: There is a well-known saying from a very wise philosopher who said before he died that he realized how   how little he knew. That wise man was right for there are so many different jobs for example that we are not aware of or even know about. Even in your own field you can be the best Chef, but that doesn't mean that you can't learn something from your assistant;   maybe he can teach you another way to cut an onion without crying, or a way to cut faster without hurting yourself. All I'm trying to say is there is always something to learn from everybody, and that you shouldn't be blinded by your ego. Once you believe that you are the best and nobody can contribute,   that is the start of the fall that is about to come. For,   a person with that set of mind will have   difficulty in adjusting to changes that come with time and eventually will eventually be left behin...

  Don't Expect Other People To Take Care Of Your Needs: It's is very important to understand in life that even if a certain person makes a commitment to you, even if it's a person you helped in the past or a family member not to rely on their promise. In life the real people that deliver are people who talk less and do more, people who showed you that they are capable of keeping their word numerous times. But  it is important to remember that you also have plan B. For example: Your parents told you they are going to help you pay the rent but you still have a temporary job just in case. It's important to understand that even a person you helped financially, or let into your home most likely won't be there for you.   J ust hope for the best because usually that person you helped will forget all about you when he leaves.   K eep in mind that true giving is without expecting anything in return so be strong and remember you gave, so that person did not take advant...

  Decide what you want to be but deliver your self with integrity: In any given moment you have 100% control on your approach to life, on how you react to people and situations, and the type of person you want to be. Even if until now you were the total opposite of who you wished to be or who you would take pride to be   you need to understand that you and only you have the power to change your reality a 180 degree change. Try this take a piece of paper and a pen and write what you are right know and what you want to change in your personality, let's say this month you are focusing on   taking life easy and joyfully, or from now on I arrive to every meeting 10 min early. Please don't make your life difficult by trying to change everything at once, make up to 3 changes in a month and genuinely stick to them, and then when you feel confident add more changes.Or even better make a Column with the trade you want to change, and the other Column write the action   that by ...

   A Wise Person is a person that reflects his departure from this world when he still   young: I know it sounds weird yet it's true. People are very confident that they will live to see old age. Therefore most people tend to act selfishly and mainly worry about advancing their interests to achieve their goals and their own success thinking that in an older age they will amend their deeds. I heard many people say: Now I'm young later I will think about my actions-assuming they will have that time later in life to be more considerate to other people. Let's face it the most important date remains unknown and many people would have lived their life entirely differently if they kn ew their expiration date. A person that reflects seriously and objectively on the actions that he takes will be able   realize his mistakes on time and amend   relationships with people in his surroundings ; such people will be able to see the   consequences of their actions. The ...

 Life's Dynamics: Life is very clear and logical, it is people who make things complicated by their lack of objectivity, it is difficult for people to see things and most important accept things for what they are. Most people round the edges (  I mean,   ‘most people make things look better than they are) and adjust the color to be rosier in order to make situations fit their inner desires. When such thing s take place,   no warnings from people around can help because people truly believe they can change the circumstances to fit their vision. In literature there is a term called indicating hint. It is a very simple but authentic   method to view a story and I think life as well.   Throughout the story you view each character by the words they use and the actions they take, it is very accurate for you can easily know in the beginning of the story what to expect from each character for there is a clear pattern repeating it self. In life it is the sam...

    A different view for success: Let's face it life is not easy. But we should take it lightly. A person can really exert himself ,   sacrifice his sweat and blood and there will be no fruits to his labor. At times even giving your absolute 100% isn’t enough , and it's difficult and frustrating and you want to scream from the top of your lungs and give up, but you mustn't give up, as the saying goes, you might have lost the battle but you won the war. Even if things don't go as they should, don't view the experience as a failure, but as a learning experience, as a temporary set back, maybe it happened because you took a wrong turn. What distinguishes a winner is his view of life :   he sees no drama or mistakes, rather he sees a lesson, an experience, now he is wiser and he knows what not to do. He doesn't let this set back get   him down and give up, a winner is similar to James Bond, and he keeps his cool no matter what comes his way. One must try and...